What makes you feel really beautiful?
A friend of mine asked me this question a few days ago during an excellent philosophical chat in between food, drinks and good company.
What makes you women feel beautiful?
Actually, until that moment I had never sat down to analyze it … I almost struggled to answer!
But what I realized right now is that beauty is something that starts from the inside out and not the other way around!
It has to do with our relationship with ourselves and our choices.
Judging by myself today at the age of 37, I feel more beautiful than my 20s. The fact that my body was better, gravity had no effect on specific points, wrinkles were not even in my vocabulary, etc …
But then I focused more on what I do not like, and I put my energy on them. I was looking to find out who I am or what I want from my life. I was sly, and I would dare say
Today, yes, my body has hanged because you do not escape from the county of gravity!!! Two births after the marks are obvious! Yes, I see every time I take my wrinkles into the mirror. But I have never felt more beautiful in my life!
What has changed?
I learned to love my body as it really is. I started to care for it as it deserves. I give it daily the time and energy that I need. Now I know how to improve it if I want it! I know better who I am and what my vision is. It has stopped the opinion of others to be a barometer of my image.
I discovered how to evolve daily and small conquests give me more confidence. I chose not to negotiate my comfort and decided to get rid of everything does not allow me to be myself.
I learned to look at my mirror image in the morning and feel deeply grateful for everything I have!!
I realized that smile is the most invaluable cosmetic and it does not cost anything!
So, I came to what beauty is for me.
It is love, consciousness, tranquillity, balance.
More than anything beauty is choice!
And the choice is freedom and happiness!